Unfortunately I see so many folks get anxious and unhappy that they have to spend time with people they really don't want to be with or because they put financial pressure on themselves and then can't really enjoy their giving. Many folks feel torn because they must choose between which parent's house to go to or, if divorced, working out where they children are supposed to be.
All is calm is not necessarily what I witness folks being. Quite the contrary. I see many folks bitching and moaning and groaning over this and over that, rushing everywhere, and taking with them negative energy that totally dampens the holiday spirit of those around them. People get angry over parking, over having to wait, over having to get a Secret Santa gift at the office; anxious over what people will think about their house or their gift choices; and depressed because they just "hate this time of year."
One year my Mom fell and broke her kneecap a few weeks before Christmas. Her first response was "how am I going to get everything done? how can I shop?" She was so upset and anxious for a while. Then the magic happened and Mom just got still and decided to change her mind about what this accident that made it hard for her to move around had done.. She looked at me one day and said, "I guess this happened so that I would stop and really be present for every moment of this holiday season. I think I was supposed to slow down and just enjoy time with family and friends." I know that Christmas that year was different for it was calm and it was jolly. My Mom looked at the accident as a gift and in so doing changed how she felt about it. The best present you can give yourself and others is the gift of BEING PRESENT enjoying the here and now not worrying about tomorrow or next week. Being totally present with those around you at the office or in the mall or at the party will fill your heart with joy and will certainly keep your body calm and healthy and energized. Give yourself a gift this holiday season and each day decide to experience calm and to be jolly no matter what the challenges. You have the choice to create a magical and memorable holiday or one that creates chaos, upset stomachs and bad attitudes.
Please join me for my holiday brunch and wisdom event on December 7, from 12:30-2:00 at St. Martins Wine Bistro. Your invitation is below. May You and Yours truly experience all the gifts of this special time of year and may you be well and calm and joyful each day of the year! Molly
‘TIS THE SEASON SO
YOU AND YOUR GUESTS JOIN US FOR A SPECIAL HOLIDAY
BRUNCH AND WISDOM EVENT
SUNDAY, DECEMBER 7, 12:30-2:00, ST. MARTINS WINE BISTRO, 3020 GREENVILLE AVE.
As you enjoy one of the best brunches in Dallas, drink savory coffee, or sip on a mimosa
MOLLY BEHANNON, LIFE COACH AND MOTIVATIONAL SPEAKER WILL GIVE YOU THE
PRECIOUS PRESENT: HOW TO KEEP THE CALM AND THE JOLLY IN THE SEASON
Order from the prefixed menu which is an awesome deal! For $16.95 (doesn’t include tax or gratuity) you get bread choice or muffin, fruit cup, salad or soup, choice of entre with a complementary glass of champagne, bloodymary, juice or coffee or order from the regular brunch menu.
We will gather in the private dining room with a nice fire to soothe your soul. Dress is casual and Complementary valet is available.
Price for the event is $20 per person.
**Please call John at St. Martins, 214-826-0940 by December 5th, to reserve your seat for this unique celebration of love, life, and learning. Mention “Molly’s Event” and leave your contact information.
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